because you want to be real by Ulrich Schaffer ....
you will haunted by a desire to be genuine, up
act not artificial, not to think about your
effect. You want to not take back
for fear of being misunderstood or hurting
.
You do not want to say more words that do not you think
and not create more a face tense up
. You no longer want the panels that
masks and acting. You you want to be myself,
relaxed, a man among men.
And if you ask yourself whether this is for you place in the world,
for you as you are.
You do not want more to join the games where you have to be
fake and go away from yourself.
When the games are called like this: I see nothing, I
a thick skin, everyone must always happy
act, I am the best, I'm the one that nobody loves
. You resist against the distortions of the
own nature, against the harmony at all costs,
against the games of humiliation.
If you do what you are not, grows quiet
Aversion with yourself. If you take with you
does what is foreign to you, you start up to
despise. If you become real, even if it hurts
up and has other, then the deep happiness a chance.
you are looking for a deep encounter in which even your
is innermost being invited to show up. Where do you
recognize themselves as you are in the level of the
other, and your comparison with himself as well
met, in the wonder of the open eye, growing in
pain and happiness.
There are others like you, and you also seek
as you discover them.
you feel that you have a core, an inner essence,
where you are really yourself. Actions and thoughts,
come from this core are filled with you, with
your actions and thoughts.
You also feel that your heart be developed
be that your being still clings to many spurious. Who
am I? , You ask and choose, you pursue
, you reach out for what you could be
.
You are surrounded by a world that you often prefer
has a role and not in the angularity of your
real one. We wish you warm and cuddly. You
shalt not notice. It offers you, the small
to live lies, the easier everything. So you are
regarded and popular.
But there are also those who are happy when they discover
your authenticity that encourages even well
to be genuine.
we can each be an impulse to give up playing hide
? Do we want to be real and the ice that surrounded
our hearts melt?
Just because you want to be real, you discover unexpected
pages to you. Since there is still shining, which is only the deliberate
visible. Also dark is here. It
is a background that looks like a frightening abyss
. And as an ever-smaller dolls within a doll
your thoughts are nesting in your mind: In you
stuck forces that encourage and surprise, disturb and delight
free, and hurt.
You are more complex, intelligent, amazing
different and far more than you thought.
Some find you funny because you want to be real are
and willing to pay a high price.
you leave yourself open enough that they have lost
its own essence in the eyes.
It surprised her that a man looking for himself and has
longing for what he does in only.
Only if you're really, you're finally at peace with
you destroy yourself otherwise you're in the fight against you
itself
venturing carefully you up in a conversation and hope that
your comparison to your deep pages
interested. You carry valuables are not in you and
willing, before they spread like anyone
cheap goods.
your true nature in all its depth is your gift to
the others. Your heart you reveal only to those who have themselves
a heart and are willing to show it.
Because you want to be real, you need time for you.
authenticity arises not in the bustling and hunting.
you need hours of self-examination, questioning and searching
: What do you want and what is not? You have days
necessary to the discovery of your inner devoted.
In times of emptiness can something be alive in you. You
need silence in order to fulfill your deep desires
and to pursue it seriously.
Because you want to be real, if you throw in front of you, that you think
only in yourself, and understand not,
that we find each other only as far as we
themselves have found.
We overcome the wide gap on the other just across the bridge
of self-knowledge. In proportion as we understand
ourselves, we will understand each other.
Because you want to be real, is you any spuriousness
more on. You are awake for the artificial, for the
small deceptions. You look through the empty words
recognize your own grimace and
hear exaggerated laughter, a man hiding behind his
disappointment.
then when you imagine how it could be if we were all really
and each other's eyes
could, then you are suffering because we have so far
away from it. But it is not a goal for the
worth living for? Everyone can start with you.
Be true to what arises in you and do not live by the values of other
. What you have to give you.
Your identity is your contribution, not your ability
the others to imitate and to live like her.
If you want to be real, you have to learn
"no" to say what you suffocated.
Then you will find what suits you and flourish
it.
Because you're real, you have appeal. With you know
you where you stand. What say you think, do you think
thou, thou livest If you are silent, it is no
trick with which you want to achieve something. You seem
liberating.
It is not hard up for a moment to
love. Sometimes it's harder to love you more
if you stay real. And even harder to
is to encourage you to remain true even if you hurt others
and they're hurting.
means to be real, walk upright, visible in the gray
, remember dreams, hopes and not
give up the fight against mediocrity.
is real is like coming home to ourselves
be back where we started, the paradise
live again, this time deliberately.
We can not sell by the side of God,
dwells in us. lived
